#presence

I woke up late—but still got everything done. In ten minutes, my daughter was ready and out the door, a quiet reminder that capability doesn't need defending. The rest of the day was intentional stillness. For the first time in weeks, I didn't go anywhere. I stayed home, cleaned, reflected, and let absence teach me something.

Scripture: Psalm 127:1

I didn't slow down because I had clarity—I slowed down because I wanted love. This chapter reflects on how chasing connection revealed that presence matters more than productivity, and how that realization reshaped my relationship with my children.

Scripture: Ecclesiastes 4:9-10

Somewhere between solitude and hope, love softened into something quieter. This chapter reflects on friendship, patience, and the kind of connection that doesn't rush to define itself—but still chooses to stay.

Scripture: Galatians 6:9

Growth doesn't always feel dramatic. This chapter reflects on quiet progress, steady direction, and the encouragement found in recognizing how far I've already come.

Scripture: Proverbs 13:24

Discipline in fatherhood isn't about control—it's about care. This chapter reflects on learning how guidance, trust, and connection shape children far more deeply than fear ever could.

Scripture: Psalm 46:10

After loss, the instinct to escape can be strong. This chapter reflects on learning to stay present with discomfort, resisting distraction, and discovering that growth sometimes happens through stillness rather than motion.

Scripture: Proverbs 25:28

I used to believe love meant showing up more, giving more, and trying harder. This chapter reflects on learning how restraint, presence, and responsibility reshaped the way I relate—without abandoning myself in the process.

A day of preparation, interruptions, and an unexpected scare—ending not quietly, but with relief and reflection.

Scripture: 1 John 3:18

Fatherhood is shaped less by milestones and more by moments. This chapter reflects on the quiet power of presence—learning when to lead, when to listen, and how showing up consistently leaves a deeper imprint than perfection ever could.